TotSpot is a site that wants to be the place where you share informartion about your kids, as they grow up, with family members. You can share photos, journal, or milestones with family. Also, TotSpot is trying to be the place where you can keep these record for your own purposes. They will soon be adding the ability to order baby books that contain the information and photos that you have uploaded. These could be some very nice books, assuming that you consistantly enter information for your kids.
TotSpot allows you to specify access controls for who can access the site that you have set up. In addition to that access controls, you can see a log of who accesses your site.